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armchair_warrior
armchair_warrior
edited November -1 in The Lounge / Random Stuff
it got the same results as the Columbia university one. i'm so screwed!!!

i guess i should brush up on my Arabic and learn more about Native American culture(are they even out there :p) and i'm down with the sisters :p.


http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/2009/10/05/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/

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  • the psycho-ologist
    the psycho-ologist

    Subject: Its all about YOU then!

    Frankly as a Black woman I have noticed the trends that this guy is discussing long before this blog.

    Ride the subway or sit in a coffee shop.

    Before I get flamed, let me just state the obvious: this is my personal experience, based on many anecdotes.

    You’d be surprised at how many men, including Black men, avoid sitting next to Black women, or being friendly with Black women, particularly if she is more “Negroid” looking.

    You’d be amazed at how Asian women angle themselves into subway seats, or areas congregated by White men, but move away very quickly if an Asian man, or any other non White man approaches.

    You’d be amazed at how often even a well dressed non White man is looked upon distrustfully by a White woman or how often she will reach for her bag when he comes around.

    This what ____ I ______ have noticed (emphasis on my personal experience). I am not claiming that what I wrote is actually what is going on. I am only writing what I perceive with my own eyes.


    I am not bitter over being looked over by 90% of men. Just think girl, you get to do the things you want to do when you want to do them. No boyfriend or kids to argue with about plans.

    Now you now have the opportunity to spoil yourself rotten, by treating yourself to all the things that married women with kids have to sacrifice because they are married with kids and don’t have the time or money.

    Yep. I am going to Mykonos. You with me! Yeah, I picked the destination and didn’t have to debate with anyone who’d would rather go to Scotland.
    It's all about YOU girl.
  • armchair_warrior
    armchair_warrior
    i already spend most of my time with my hobby, computer games and nerd related sites :p. and girls in that area is super rare and ratio is very bad.

    its like 30 nerdy guys to 1 girl lol sad.