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Is it weird that I still post here?

cool the kid
cool the kid
edited November -1 in Crown Heights/Prospect Lefferts Gardens

Despite my hasty + necessary departure from Bergen & NYA some 8 months ago, somehow I still feel a connection with CH & take a passive but steady interest in the goings on there.

Is it weird? Do my posts seem like Monday Night quarterbacking at times? I want to know

Comments

  • whynot_31
    whynot_31

    I can think of a couple of regulars that have moved and still post.

  • krowonhill
    krowonhill

    No ... but maybe you should move back?

  • snowboardqueen
    snowboardqueen

    Personally, yes, because you had such negative things to say about CHN it even seems strange to see you write that you "still feel a connection to" the neighborhood..

    To me, it would seem more logical that you would want to move on and embrace the new, or stay on your journey to find whatever you were looking for that you did not find in CHN.

    But, if memory serves me correct, to return to anything, a internet board that serves a neighborhood that you had/have such negative thoughts, reactions and comments to does not strike me as logical or rational.

    I really was hoping the you found your peace on the UES, but then again, not ALL of the UES is created equally. On the one hand, there is 68th and Park Ave or 98th and 1st Ave - to worlds apart - yet still the UES.

    I would suggest trying the UWS, some gorgeous brownstones reminiscent of the ones found in CHN.

  • matthurst
    matthurst

    I don't think it's so weird; I still read a lot of the blogs from St. Louis, to keep up on the news in my old hometown.

  • domino
    domino

    You can leave Brooklyn but Brooklyn will always be a part of you. I am born and bred Brooklyn and have relocated a few times due to employment, marriages, etc. I always stay connected and somehow always manage to find my way back. The fact that you are staying connected and post is proof enough that Brooklyn has permanently entered your heart. BTW, I find your posts (i.e., Wal-Mart) thoughtful and eloquent.

  • MOD
    MOD

    CTK, I hope you don't stop posting. I enjoy reading your posts and your point of views on different subjects. As Domino basically said, you can take the boy out of Brooklyn, but not the Brooklyn out of the boy. Don't stress it, jump in the internet-pool, the water is fine :nemo:

  • mha
    mha

    Brooklyn is like a phat beat, a phat ass or good sex. You can't forget it baby...

  • cool the kid
    cool the kid

    Personally, yes, because you had such negative things to say about CHN it even seems strange to see you write that you "still feel a connection to" the neighborhood..

    To me, it would seem more logical that you would want to move on and embrace the new, or stay on your journey to find whatever you were looking for that you did not find in CHN.

    But, if memory serves me correct, to return to anything, a internet board that serves a neighborhood that you had/have such negative thoughts, reactions and comments to does not strike me as logical or rational.

    I really was hoping the you found your peace on the UES, but then again, not ALL of the UES is created equally. On the one hand, there is 68th and Park Ave or 98th and 1st Ave - to worlds apart - yet still the UES.

    I would suggest trying the UWS, some gorgeous brownstones reminiscent of the ones found in CHN.

    Moving out has helped me to appreciate the good things about CH. I still visit probably once a month and I enjoy that it has so many things I can't find in Manhattan (mainly decent Jamaican food). Plus I was on what might have been a particularly bad block, two houses down from the worst building on the block, so naturally that would bias anybody. When I lived in the Alma Realty complex I loved it.

    And I have "found peace" in the UES. But still it would be dishonest for me to say I completely hated my time in BK. I still pester my gf to come with me to Soda, etc. But I think anyone here would be rattled by

    - having their house & car broken into

    - having 2 of their bikes stolen

    - living 2 houses down from a crackhead

    - having their gf called a "cracker bitch"

    My gripes were definitely legit, but wholly quality of life issues and in no way an indictment on the neighborhood as a whole. If one can find a good block, CH can be an awesome place to live for cheap.

    Plus the issues in CH are somewhat of a micro version of the issues facing a lot of places in the city, and discussions about said issues interest me.

    And thanks for the kind words everyone... didn't mean for it to be a love fest (though it is appreciated) but more of a discussion on the impact places people lived have had on them, even if it was just for a short time. My stint in CH definitely helped me appreciate the UES a lot more than I would have otherwise, and of course introduced me to a lot of cool people.

  • mha
    mha

    CTK, is it weird that I post here?

  • capt. planet
    capt. planet

    Your situation CTK reminds me of "Hurt Locker". In case you didn't see it, the bomb disposal dude who stars in the film signs up for another tour of duty because life in his hometown bores the bejesus out of him.

  • park place
    park place

    It is hard to leave Crown/Prospect Heights. Believe me, I know.

  • cool the kid
    cool the kid

    Capt. Planet said:

    Your situation CTK reminds me of "Hurt Locker". In case you didn't see it, the bomb disposal dude who stars in the film signs up for another tour of duty because life in his hometown bores the bejesus out of him.

    CH def has its issues, but I just can't shake it. I blame my old block

  • whynot_31
    whynot_31

    whynot_31 said:

    I think the only answer for me, is to once again move to a neighborhood completely devoid of anything I want to eat. Afterall, that's why I moved here about 10 years ago.

    ....then these damn new stores and restaurants came. They all seem to focus on quality and selection, and I am slowly becoming a lard ass as a result.

    Since our pathetic government isn't going to protect me from the health effects of these new stores, I'm beginning to conclude I have no other choice but to once again move some place safer.