need ideas for a cozy place for a group of 30 for

drinks and apps/ maybe dinner. I want soemthign free flowing for a reception but I don't want to bill it as a wedding reception I want it to be casualish atmosphere but still want to get a little dressed up.

frankie's 457 spuntino on court street

http://frankiesspuntino.com/457/index.html

the private room in the back may just be the thing you're looking for. had a family party there last month with about 45 people, and it was great. food is good, served family style. attentive but casual service with its own bar. very nice, very relaxed.