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  • suzie
    suzie
    Jeanette ....then she must know....how sad!


    Helen ....good luck tomorrow. I hope things start going right for you!
  • suzie
    suzie
    Debbie ....I hope you come on with good news for Kati today!



    I'll be back lata
  • t-bone51
    t-bone51
    Oh u Poor slugger rest up....
  • judy giordano banjany
    judy giordano banjany
    Carol, Danny & Peter...............My deepest sympathy for your loss.

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    Carol - I hope some of what we talked about helped you with taking care of your mother-in-law...You were a wonderful daughter-in-law.
  • mary ann
    mary ann
    Helen....

    Again....Very Sorry about your Husband's passing...I did post to you the day it happened....

    I was reading your post about Widow's pension...you can't collect on his Social Security until the age of 60, but not the full amount, I believe less 25 percent..and if you work you can't make over l4, 500 or somewhere in that range..if you make over the amount allowed they take a dollar for every two dollars that you make and deduct it...after all the deductions are taken out, they will let you know how many months in the year you are entitled to it...in my case I only recevied a check 9 months out of the year.....the other three months were held back because I made more then they allowed...I now don't recieve any widow's pension, because just this past year I found out that I was entiled to Veterans pension.....something that the veterans just past last year...my husband died of ALS and it seems many veterans were being diagnosed with neurological problems,,so I put it for it and they awared me the pension, so now with that it was too much for the widow's pension, but it turned out better because I am recieving it for all 12 months now....I had to wait 5 years before I was able to collect the widow's pension, it was hard,but I guess we manage somehow...when I look back I don't know how I did it.....
    Hopefully things will fall into place for you, it's a lot of paperwork and lots of things to settle,it's overwhelming...just take it one day at a time...that's all you can do.....
    Umbria's babysitter....
  • judy giordano banjany
    judy giordano banjany
    Anthony - Congratulations on the marriage of your daughter......You will be a great FATHER-IN-LAW...!!!!
  • judy giordano banjany
    judy giordano banjany
    Carol, Danny and Peter..My husband Bobby wanted me to tell you he is so sorry for your loss.
  • suzie
    suzie
    Hi Judy


    Hi Mary Ann...you just gave her some good advice ....Im so glad your
    always around for us! xoxo
  • debbie bonavita mccarthy
    debbie bonavita mccarthy
    Hi all......

    Anthony I'm sorry about your friend. Congratulations to your daughter and son-in-law to be...... :D

    Carol, Danny and Peter.....I'm so sorry for your loss.

    Sue thanks for asking......The news is pretty much the same......he did more x-rays and will consult with an orthopedic surgeon also. We go back May 3rd and we'll more than likely schedule her surgery then. I did feel so much better with this doctor.......it does pay to go to the city.

    I would lie before I put my real weight on here.......lol We need a plan B
  • hyhy7464
    hyhy7464
    ITS 50 IF U ARE DISABLED
    WHICH IS ME THANKS MARYANN
    AT LEAST I HAVE HIS PENSION AND
    MY OWN SOCIAL SECURITY IN THE MEANTIME
    I JUST HAVE TO GET A DRUG PLAN MY TEETH I HAVE
    AND MY GLASSES I CAN GET INEXPENSIVELY
  • mary ann
    mary ann
    Thanks Suzie

    Just passing along something that I had a little experience with..I just thank God that I work in school system and when I retired, or should I say had my midlife crisis, I retired with my medical.........working again in different school system that is funded by the state but privately owned, but still have my medical from the old job....I hope Helen will find out what's best for her.....one thing at a time....it's too much to handle all at once....
    Have a good nite...

    Anthony..
    Congratulations .......something good for a change....
  • mary ann
    mary ann
    Sorry,Helen didn't know you were disabled....

    Good Luck....hopefully everything will all into place for you.....
  • hyhy7464
    hyhy7464
    I HAVE BEEN PENNILESS AND HAD TO RAISE 4 KIDS
    ON MY OWN WITH LITTLE TO NO HELP
    AT LEAST NOW I HAVE SOME SOURCE OF INCOME AND I WILL MUTTLE THRUEVEN IF ITS RUFF I CAN DO IT
  • hyhy7464
    hyhy7464
    IM A SLUGGER LOL
  • patsy (miele) kirk
    patsy (miele) kirk
    FIRST OF ALL...CONDOLENCES TO CAROL, PETER & DANNY
    SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS...:(

    I JUST LITERALLY WALKED IN FROM MY SISTER'S MOTHER IN LAWS
    WAKE 10 MINS AGO,, I COME ON HERE & MORE BAD NEWS...

    UMBRIA..CONGRATULATIONS TO AMANDA LEIGH...GREAT NEWS..
    GIVE HER A BIG HUG & KISS FOR ME, WILL YA, FATHER IN LAW..:)

    DEBBIE..I HOPE & PRAY ALL GOES GREAT FOR KATI.


    HI TO ALL... I HAVEN'T HAD A CHANCE TO UNWIND SINCE 6:30
    THIS MORNING...I WENT TO THE WAKE FROM WORK WITH MY
    HUBBY & MY HEAD IS SPINNING.. I NEED TO UNWIND & RELAX A
    LITTLE.. SO HI TO EVERYONE ON HERE...

    I WILL PEEK BACK IN LATER....:)
  • t-bone51
    t-bone51
    Just so exhausted going to bed
    Good Night all

    My deepest sympathy to the Lovaglios.
    God Bless you Carol for being such a wonderful daughter inlaw and really a daughter to Nina...
  • donna reitz tanzillo
    donna reitz tanzillo
    Hi Carol:

    I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers for you, Danny and Peter.
    You were the best daughter in law for her and I'm sure she knew it.

    She couldn't have gotten better care any where else. You did your
    best. Remember that during this difficult week. Love to you...........
  • patsy (miele) kirk
    patsy (miele) kirk
    GOOD NIGHT, FRIENDS :)

    PLEASANT DRAMS & C U ALL IN THE MORNING.. XX :)
  • anna famoso
    anna famoso
    Hi-Helen-u r such an inspiration! After reading everything you've gone thru, I hope you realize what a strong person u r..it's amazing how we have to do what we have to do to get things done. you'll also get thru this sad time and come out just fine. God bless u...Anthony-sorry for your loss but congrats on your daughter's wedding..Debbie-hope everything goes well for Kati...Terry, Suzie & Patsy-get some rest early tonight............talk to u tomorrow..........
  • suzie
    suzie
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    Goodmorning Everybody ..... have a good one today!
  • hyhy7464
    hyhy7464
    GOOD MORNING ALL
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  • debbie bonavita mccarthy
    debbie bonavita mccarthy
    Good morning all......

    Had a restless night.....poor Samm had a few friends over yesterday and when they were gone so was her phone........ :cry:

    I need some ideas on dinner.....lol....I know most of you haven't even had your coffee yet......
  • t-bone51
    t-bone51
    If u ever up by 15th avenue go to the butcher next to Leonis Mozzarella place
    He makes a chicken chopmeat. It is really good and healthier. His chicken cutlets are good too. 199 lb flat if u want. U know me I go to my butcher for everything but now those 2 items I buy there and save money and it makes a great chicken meatloaf....U can make chili with it too they wont even notice the difference in the chili..Helen knows exactly where it is and the mozzarella (fresh) are 3 for 12 I think u pay that for one. He sells them to the stores....
    Dinner I DON'T KNOW WHAT I AM MAKING BUT I HAVE A BIG SALAD EVERY NIGHT.....

    WHERE IS SAMS PHONE DID SHE FIND IT DID SOMEONE TAKE IT???? OH NO!!! I HOPE NOT..
  • t-bone51
    t-bone51
    THIS IS FROM DANNY LOVAGLIO

    The wake will be only for one day at Scalia Funeral Home 28 Eltingville Boulevard, Staten Island NY 10312. Hours will be 2:00 P.M. to 5:00 P.M. & 7:00 P.M. to 9:00 P.M.
    HE DID NOT PUT WHAT DAY?????
  • hyhy7464
    hyhy7464
    LAST NITE I TOOK 2 OF THE FOCACCHIAS PUT MOZZARELLA AND PEPPORONI ON IT AND MADE PIZZAS YUMMMMMY
    I ONLY EAT FRESH MOZZARELLA
  • hyhy7464
    hyhy7464
    I PROBABLY WONT MAKE THE FUNERAL
    BUT I WILL SEND A MASS CARD 2 FUNERALS IN
    WEEK IS MORE THAN I CAN HANDLE RIGHT NOW
  • hyhy7464
    hyhy7464
    I ALSO AM NOT HANDLING THE LAST AGENCY TODAY WILL GO
    THURSDAY AND TAKE CARE OF IT
  • debbie bonavita mccarthy
    debbie bonavita mccarthy
    Helen.......just take it day by day.....don't push yourself.

    Terry.....Samm had 2 friends over....they were outside and where using Samm's phone...Samm came in to use the bathroom....when she went out the girls were leaving and she forgot about her phone until a little later. We looked everywhere......nothing. I've also gone to Leoni's for the chicken cutlets but haven't tried the chicken chopped meat yet....but I will.
  • t-bone51
    t-bone51
    Debbie Bonavita McCarthy wrote: Helen.......just take it day by day.....don't push yourself.

    Terry.....Samm had 2 friends over....they were outside and where using Samm's phone...Samm came in to use the bathroom....when she went out the girls were leaving and she forgot about her phone until a little later. We looked everywhere......nothing. I've also gone to Leoni's for the chicken cutlets but haven't tried the chicken chopped meat yet....but I will.
    They probably have it and she will get it back I hope...

    Going to Nivena again today for St. Antony I always find thing I lose when i pray to him and God. Pray Saint Anthony, Saint Anthony come around Sam's phone is gone and can not be found. It always works for me...Good Luck

    See ya later got to get stuff for basket orders......
  • judy giordano banjany
    judy giordano banjany
    Good Morning Everyone,

    The wake for Nina Lovaglio will be held tomorrow, Wednesday, April 21st.

    Have a good day, little busy this morning...peek back later