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Has a doctor who treated you ever made a pass at you?

kristine4president
kristine4president
edited November -1 in The Lounge / Random Stuff
Do you have a story to share about being "romantically" approached by a doctor, married OR single, after being treated by him/her? Did they use MySpace, Facebook or another social networking site to contact you? How did it make you feel? Did you meet them outside of the hospital/office?

This happened with my dentist and I really want to hear stories from others who this has happened to!
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  • scarlett
    scarlett
    Please tell me it wasn't MY hot dentist on the uws. I have been trying to get him to ask me out for a year!
  • anastasia beaverhausen
    anastasia beaverhausen
    Sounds more like a "Penthouse Letters" question to me. Just subscribe already. Quit trying to get your jollies here for free.
  • snowboarding
    snowboarding
    ummm.. I think we need to hear your story first!
  • kristine4president
    kristine4president
    If you took the time to investigate my other posts you might realize I am not in the demographic of dirty old man as you presume by my question. Second, if you think there is anything "jolly" about a respected medical professional violating a patient's trust and privacy, you're more ignorant than you seem.

    Thanks anyway, but I'll take my question to a more intellectual forum.
  • carmen
    carmen
    Ahahahahaahhahahahaha Ana you killed the newb so fast. I'm proud.
  • kristine4president
    kristine4president
    It will take more than that to "kill" me. This is a community board, not World of Warcraft. If you have nearly 2000 posts, and most of them are just slamming others, I would much rather be an intelligent newbie. For life.
  • carmen
    carmen
    Most of them are slamming others? Seriously? I don't want to fight with you but thats a pretty asinine statement (I barely even make fun of the neighborhood scapegoat, mougar.)
    I think you were asking for it with threat a moving to a more "intellectual" forum. "This is a community board," not a mensa meeting.

    Plus I would hardly call an inquiry about the courtesies of getting hit on an "intellectual" topic, but feel free to march on over to http://www.amphilsoc.org and ask them if you think their advice is better. We'll be over here making fun of moug for being the bearded lady when you feel like returning.
  • mougar
    mougar
    Intelligent people can be mean. Only stupid people would think mean and intelligent are mutually exclusive. ;-)
  • carmen
    carmen
    Also, to actually respond to the OP, I don't see why getting hit on by a doctor is any weirder than getting hit on my anyone else assuming they're not a gyno (even then I guess its ok but thats just...weird.) Dentists need love too.
  • kristine4president
    kristine4president
    If you read my post and question, it is asking if anyone had a doctor who was treating them contact them on a social networking site for communication not regarding medical treatment. So can we please get back on topic now?
  • MOD
    MOD
    Both me and Flexi have been PRAYING our doctor hits on us :tongue:
  • stacey
    stacey
    Mamacita wrote: Both me and Flexi have been PRAYING our doctor hits on us :tongue:
    Add me to that list!
  • eggcream
    eggcream
    No, but how about a clue as to whom your dentist is?
  • laura b
    laura b
    I always get crushes on my cats' veterinarians.
  • whynot_31
    whynot_31
    kristine4president wrote: If you read my post and question, it is asking if anyone had a doctor who was treating them contact them on a social networking site for communication not regarding medical treatment. So can we please get back on topic now?
    Why do I have the feeling we are being used as research for a student paper?

    Women's studies?
    Social Work?
    Psych?

    P.S. My answer to your question is "Maybe. Why?"
  • mougar
    mougar
    Carmen wrote: We'll be over here making fun of moug for being the bearded lady when you feel like returning.
    Whatever, I'm going to have a beer. On my roof deck. While I wait for my laundry to finish. Heh
  • whynot_31
    whynot_31
    Mougie!

    ..glad the apartment is working out. I hope you watched tonight's awesome sunset instead of your neighbor. ...although, let's be honest, Mougar could have a far worse neighbor.

    just sayin'
  • carmen
    carmen
    Mougar wrote: [quote=Carmen]We'll be over here making fun of moug for being the bearded lady when you feel like returning.
    Whatever, I'm going to have a beer. On my roof deck. While I wait for my laundry to finish. Heh

    in your words "efucka you-a"
    or however you say it.
  • scarlett
    scarlett
    I believe that would be "fuckadayou!" Isn't that awful? Tried to tell him it lowered his level of couth to a negative number but he insists on using it.
  • mougar
    mougar
    You're both very close, it's "e-fuckada you-a"
  • anastasia beaverhausen
    anastasia beaverhausen
    There used to be a hot ER vet at the ER clinic on 69th St.
  • scarlett
    scarlett
    Is there still? Care to take a stroll on lunch?

    Between your pencil skirt and my little cleavage we should do aiiiiite.
  • arieshine
    arieshine
    I had a doctor hit on me once, when I went to the hospital after I fainted on the subway. I felt really sick, sweaty, gross, and frightened, and comments like "Do you have a boyfriend? Do you guys fight a lot?" during my "exam" were not welcome.
  • kristine4president
    kristine4president
    Ariesshine...thanks for sharing. It is sort of predator-like of doctors to behave this way, aside from it being highly unethical.

    gross.
  • testuser226
    testuser226
    stacey wrote: [quote=Mamacita]Both me and Flexi have been PRAYING our doctor hits on us :tongue:
    Add me to that list!

    Mama beat me to it :lol:

    (btw, he does sometimes reads this board, so hi, Dr. R :lol: )
  • flo
    flo
    Once I had a masseuse hit on me. At the time, it felt a bit strange because hey, the guy had not only just seen me naked, but had just greased and rubbed me all over minus the parts where that greasing and rubbing would have made us truly intimate. (Actually that was my first and only professional massage, but not because I got asked out afterwards.)
    Now however, I would appreciate a random young guy even pretending to appreciate my deteriorating behind, especially if he had just seen it. :( :oops:

    So..I did just read in a book that Friday is the optimum day for internet porn usage or at least searching online for porn.
  • stacey
    stacey
    Flo wrote: Now however, I would appreciate a random young guy even pretending to appreciate my deteriorating behind, especially if he had just seen it. :( :oops:
    Hey its all about how you work it girl! Its Mother Nature's way of check and balances - it may deteriorate as we get older but women like us *older only in age* have perfected the use of said equipment. That's why they call us cougars cause we will tear a young man up ;)
  • MOD
    MOD
    Sigh.. Stacey you are awesome :love: thanks for making us feel better
  • stacey
    stacey
    xoxox right back at ya Mama
  • flo
    flo
    I kid, of course, gals. Liked your take on cougars there Stacey!