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So much hostility toward black women in these posts...

bleeds
bleeds
edited November -1 in Prospect Heights
I read these posts but rarely have time to post.

Question-

When did it become cool to have such visceral hate and disdain toward black women? It seems many of the posters here have some personal problems with black women. They love digging in to trash black women unreasonably in comparison to others with the same issues.

Why?

Does this forum give you an outlet to voice your racist bashing? I have an idea for you. Why don't you go to those black women, you speak so negatively of, and tell them what you think instead of cowardly dismantling their reputations online.
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  • sweet tea
    sweet tea
    bleeds -- is there a particular post or topic you're referring to? there are something like 127,000 posts on these forums, so some specificity might help make this thread an actual conversation, rather than just a shouting match.

    if not a specific thread, how about a specific mode of expressing the disdain you refer to? it's hard to respond other than defensively to such a broad accusation.
  • whyfi
    whyfi
    Bleeds - ah! Such a rich history of being the voice of reason...
  • apollonia666
    apollonia666
    WhyFi wrote: Bleeds - ah! Such a rich history of being the voice of reason...
    Let's not escalate just yet, gang, please?

    Bleeds, if you're going to make accusations about stuff like this, it would help VERY much if you could link to one or two of the posts or topics you're talking about. Because I've been wracking my brain trying to figure out what you're referring to.

    The only threads I can think of that are specifically about black women recently are the ones about Foxy Brown and the woman who owns the Well Lounge and Muddy Waters. Granted, the general attitude on the board has been pretty derisive towards both of them, but I believe the fact that they're both black women has nothing whatsoever to do with why people dislike them. Nor do I think any such thing has been implied in any of the posts. So if those are the topics you're referring to, please help us understand your objection with some specific quotes or something.
  • quijibo
    quijibo
    snifff. snifff...
    wait a minute.... snifffffffffffffffffff...

    i smell precious...
  • karl the druid
    karl the druid

    Subject: Re: So much hostility toward black women in these posts...

    bleeds wrote: I read these posts but rarely have time to post.

    Question-

    When did it become cool to have such visceral hate and disdain toward black women? It seems many of the posters here have some personal problems with black women. They love digging in to trash black women unreasonably in comparison to others with the same issues.

    Why?

    Does this forum give you an outlet to voice your racist bashing? I have an idea for you. Why don't you go to those black women, you speak so negatively of, and tell them what you think instead of cowardly dismantling their reputations online.
    i must disagree with you

    these boards are hostile to everyone with great equality
  • raw
    raw

    Subject: Re: So much hostility toward black women in these posts...

    Karl the Druid wrote: [quote=bleeds]I read these posts but rarely have time to post.

    Question-

    When did it become cool to have such visceral hate and disdain toward black women? It seems many of the posters here have some personal problems with black women. They love digging in to trash black women unreasonably in comparison to others with the same issues.

    Why?

    Does this forum give you an outlet to voice your racist bashing? I have an idea for you. Why don't you go to those black women, you speak so negatively of, and tell them what you think instead of cowardly dismantling their reputations online.
    i must disagree with you

    these boards are hostile to everyone with great equality

    On top of that, readers of these boards often misinterpret commentary. For example, one time I said I did not like Inaka’s sushi and I was accused of bashing the Japanese.
  • armchair_warrior
    armchair_warrior
    what have you been smoking? i never even read anything negative here about black women. its a none issue.

    i guess its a issue now.

    edit: please put down the crack pipe.
  • doctorj
    doctorj
    I didn't know black nuns smoked crack.
  • kick rocks!!!!
    kick rocks!!!!
    Bleeds may be referring to the constant bashing (deserve/undeserved) of Marjorie Thompson as well as the owner of Muddy Waters. I believe both women are black. You guys have to admit there is a lot of banter about them.
  • apollonia666
    apollonia666
    kick rocks!!!! wrote: Bleeds may be referring to the constant bashing (deserve/undeserved) of Marjorie Thompson as well as the owner of Muddy Waters. I believe both women are black. You guys have to admit there is a lot of banter about them.
    And she might also have had the Foxy Brown thread in mind, as I mentioned above.

    This is just one counter-example off the top of my head, but there's also been plenty of talk here about the guy who owns Mayday Hardware. He's a white guy. Discussing neighborhood characters who behave like jerks has hardly been limited to black women, and I don't think there have been any posts in ANY of the mentioned threads that in any way implied these folks' jerkiness is related to their race or sex. It's been related to their BEING JERKS.
  • doctorj
    doctorj
    Note that Robert Rocheeld is a non-black shyster. Let's hear it for colorblind hate speech.
  • alafairnadia
    alafairnadia
    hey - I've never bashed marjorie. she even let me pay 1 month rent as my broker fee instead of whateverpercent for the year.
  • alafairnadia
    alafairnadia
    ooh. and, if we're trying to give props to awesome black women in the nabe -- hello owner of sepia! and the bartender there that always plays peaches for me, even though everyone else in the bar Does Not Want.
  • dinkyla
    dinkyla
    There's no point in guessing what bleeds is talking about. Bleeds, could you be more specific?

    And, just so we're clear, I'm a black woman, and I don't like Marjorie. She's damn good at what she does, but she can be mean. Comes with the real estate agent territory, though.

    And what do people have against the Muddy Waters owner? I think she's cool. Plus she has no problem rocking a big afro wig, which I think is awesome and ballsy.
  • whyfi
    whyfi
    And what do people have against the Muddy Waters owner?
    Her... personality quirks have been well documented on the boards. The more recent discussion was on how she earned a segment on Help Me Howard.

    http://brooklynian.com/forums/viewtopic.php?t=36193
  • alafairnadia
    alafairnadia
    yeah, def. muddy waters lady = asshat.
  • karl the druid
    karl the druid

    Subject: Re: So much hostility toward black women in these posts...

    raw wrote: [sic] one time I said I did not like Inaka’s sushi and I was accused of bashing the Japanese.
    (a race-bating comment)

    you must be korean

    why else would you express antipathy towards sushi from the japanese country side

    that edo period grude will never find reslove
  • dinkyla
    dinkyla
    Could someone please explain "asshat" as an insult? I find it intriguing AND confusing.
  • alafairnadia
    alafairnadia
    dinkyla wrote: Could someone please explain "asshat" as an insult? I find it intriguing AND confusing.
    courtesy of LiveToTravel

    http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=asshat
  • god
    god
    alafairnadia wrote: [quote=dinkyla]Could someone please explain "asshat" as an insult? I find it intriguing AND confusing.
    courtesy of LiveToTravel

    http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=asshat


    "Asshat" . I love that.

    :lol:
  • bill c
    bill c
    no one's gotten worse than new zealanders. i suppose it's b/c their rugby squad is the all blacks.
  • pitu
    pitu
    bill c wrote: no one's gotten worse than new zealanders. i suppose it's b/c their rugby squad is the all blacks.
    rugby world cup at sheep station!
    :-'
    figuring there's not much thread to derail here (ahem)
  • karl the druid
    karl the druid
    i hate orcs and their stupid orcy wives

    is this the right place to post?
  • bill c
    bill c
    Ass Hat is also one of the larger towns in southeastern Alberta, CA

    I reject Placism and Placist comments. So long as people feel free to say bad things about N. Zealanders and Midwesterners no one is free.
  • dinkyla
    dinkyla
    And then the terrorists win!
  • dinkyla
    dinkyla
    By the way, I'm all for anti NZ comments. My ex is from there, and I'm all about indirect, pointless vindictiveness.
  • brooklynpotter
    brooklynpotter
    quijibo wrote: snifff. snifff...
    wait a minute.... snifffffffffffffffffff...

    i smell precious...
    dunno, q. there is another new poster named, simply, precious, who seems all too familiar with the boards and posters.
  • sterling2000
    sterling2000

    Subject: Re: So much hostility toward black women in these posts...

    bleeds wrote: I read these posts but rarely have time to post.

    Question-

    When did it become cool to have such visceral hate and disdain toward black women? It seems many of the posters here have some personal problems with black women. They love digging in to trash black women unreasonably in comparison to others with the same issues.

    Why?

    Does this forum give you an outlet to voice your racist bashing? I have an idea for you. Why don't you go to those black women, you speak so negatively of, and tell them what you think instead of cowardly dismantling their reputations online.
    I think we do a pretty good job in kicking the crap out of each other as the handful of consistent players on the board, rather than taking random potshots around the neighborhood.

    I'd love to see specific points to posts for this accusation. I'd like to think my rare attacks have been Equal Opportunity -- I insult the lack of smart argument, not skin pigment nor chromosome balance.

    Otherwise, this just smacks of stirring the turd...
  • lostingreenwoodhts
    lostingreenwoodhts
    Geeze, all this banter and NO WORD from bleeds...now, that's ass-hatery.

    Put up or shut up, as they say. Sorry to be blunt, but you have to back up accusations like "these boards hate black women." :evil:

    I personally cannot stand any of you ;) But, then i don't have to, do I?







    ...Well, I guess I do, a wee bit :)
  • armchair_warrior
    armchair_warrior
    bleeds could be a alt for another poster here.