What did everyone do today? Memorial Day (or weekend)

I just read the post about the pillow kitten family and the raccoon in the window (we had a racoon scratch a hole through the plastic lid of the trash can). Got to thinkin' well, here I am with a beginning farmer's tan, ready for bed and it is 8PM. Don't have a job to go to tomorrow but am speaking at a meeting (guess) and then going to a seminar at Mr. Sinai....
As a single person moving across the agespance to a bit over her mid-50s, I didn't have a clue as to who I could call to do something.
Headed over to the Green-Wood Cemetery just in time to hear Borough Pres Marty give a plug about the plot he owns (guess what, he rents).
Believe it or not after all of these years I never visited the cemetery. Will go back as it is almost 500 acres. The thing about Brooklyn is that we have a lot of sites and interesting green places but no matter how hard we try it is difficult to get rid of the seedy aspect...such as the plastic flowers around the newest mausoleum.
I digress. In any event, I went by myself, walked and bused along Seventh Avenue and home on Fourth and Fifth. Again, since I haven't been working I am getting to know and love???? Brooklyn more. Am from PA originally but have lived here since 1979 (cept for six years in Manhattan). So, are there other folks over fifty (perhaps 45) who don't really want to hook up with anyone but enjoy going to local events (other than bars or eating out)? :shock