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any native americans here? — Brooklynian

any native americans here?

armchair_warrior
armchair_warrior
edited November -1 in The Lounge / Random Stuff
just curious, I was looking at some dating site :p, thinking to myself, since as a asian american male, we are going extinct!! since the white man has yellow fever and asian girls have white devil disease. I thought to myself hmmm I should go native americans :p. so i took a look and damn the biggest site in america has so few native america girls and most of them are either black or white or hispanic!!!

I belong to the Haplogroup:A7 on mom's side and many native americans share it.

just 3 lousy pages on match.com sad :(.

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  • em26
    em26
    ^ ^ How 'bout you stop looking at the race of the individual and just go for who or whatever catches your eye?

    Beauty, inside or out, can't be drowned by race. So, you can't fight it. Once it clicks, you're hooked. And that's the way it goes-da-da -da-daaaaah.


    ETA: The it. and also since you're set on American Indian girls:

    http://www.nativeamericanpassions.com/

    http://www.rezfox.com/
  • boygabriel
    boygabriel
    Man you are preoccupied with race.
  • armchair_warrior
    armchair_warrior
    preoccupied lol, not really. It just something this society has to deal with. other society has to deal with class or ethnicity or sect etc... It's the cards that I have been dealt with and i'm going along with the flow.
  • scarlett
    scarlett
    Hmm. I am Native American. Chickasaw, some Quapaw and Cherokee, from what is now the Alabama/Georgia area. But I don't think we would get along, based on our interactions here. And while I like Asian men, their families never like me because I look white. So I have to agree with Em. You can't go out and look for a mate of a particular race. You have to go out and look for someone who is attractive inside and out.
  • armchair_warrior
    armchair_warrior
    you guys crack me up. I'll put it in plain words for you guys to understand. I am just merely a person who is doing what society is given me.

    People in generally do distinguish other people by looks, money etc... I don't give a shit about looks(race), but girls when looking for a mate do, that's the first thing they see. Not the personalty or anything. just looks.

    I haven't actually bother with putting up any ads at all for myself. I haven't tried this in over a decade. I was just curious to see how many native American girls are out there to date :p lol.

    Last time I try this was over a decade ago, with my personalty and a picture. So i did a test of a picture with my friends permission(white dude) sent it to same girls, I gotten replies back.

    being a Asian guy sucks in this country, men of all races do better and study's have proven it.


    here is a quick google search on being sucks to be asian guy.

    Cynthia Feliciano and Belinda Robnett collected data from Yahoo personals between September 2004 and May 2005, randomly selecting profiles of people ages 18-50 in the Los Angeles, New York, Chicago and Atlanta metropolitan regions. While white men were more open to dating outside their race than white women, both had specific racial preferences. White men preferred Asian and Latino dating partners to African Americans; white women were more likely to exclude Asian men.

    http://www.uci.edu/features/2009/04/feature_datingandrace_090421.php

    there are tons more out there.


    people say one thing and when their dating habits in reality another thing. I known alot of white girls in my life, they would almost date anyone most of them but asians are still creatures too foreign to them. same goes for asian girls and other girls.

    anyone who thinks other wise is living a a nice rosy world or lying their asses off.

    People are conformist and looks matter alot. Asian guys are always the perpetually foreigners. When was the last time you were told to get out of your country. or spit at or punch or beaten or told to give them their damn pork fried lice? As a group we have no political power, no respect. This doesn't go for asian girls, they are accept by black/white guys. they are the man!
  • armchair_warrior
    armchair_warrior
    Apparently on 20/20, John Stossel did a special on this book entitled, "Freakonomics." Various cool tidbits of knowledge that you can chat over the watercooler type stuff.

    The interesting part though, was when the author compared how white women stacked men from different races. Couple of caveats:

    * It was an online survey
    * Not scientifically rigorous
    * Since it was online, no opportunity to show off one's Game (ie personality)

    However, it does show some interesting trends. I hesitated to actually post this because I don't want the Asian bros who read this to use this as another limiting belief. Rather, I use this to motivate me to really go out there and push myself to succeed.

    Here are the highlights:

    * White women overwhelmingly preferred or sought out White Males while online dating (97% of the contacts made by WFs was to WMs).

    That's obvious and understandable. The majority of relationships and marriages are between those who have the most in common like socioeconomic background, religion, upbringing, race, etc. Nothing new there.

    * An unattractive male had to earn $150,000 more than an attractive male to be on an “even playing field.”

    Hey, don't act suprised, that's nothing new. We're all base creatures acting on instinct and societal programming. Looks and Money are two of the most important attraction switches in a women, the third being Game (ie personality).

    The quantifiable dollar value kind of raises an eyebrow, but like I stated previously, this probably wasn't that rigorous a study. It just points a trend that when a woman can't actually talk to a guy in real life (ie his Game), then she only has Looks and Money/Power to go on. And if he's unattractive, then all she has to judge is by Money/Power. Perfectly understandable.

    But here's where we get to the JUICY bits. Accurate or not, here's the part that raises some hackles:

    * Hispanic male had to make $77,000 more than a WM to be on an even playing field with regard to getting responses from WFs.

    Heck, that's the cost of a BMW 645Ci convertible!


    * Black Males had to make $154,000 more than White Males

    Wow, even the brothers get no love. And finally...

    * Asian Males had to make $247,000 more than a White Male to be on an even playing field with regard to getting responses from White Women.

    http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/04/freakonomics-cost-of-interracial.html


    there was a similar thing done by Columbia, asian guy had to make like 30k more than a white guy to date a asian girl LOL.
  • armchair_warrior
    armchair_warrior
    image

    http://freakonomics.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/03/03/race-and-romance-an-uneven-playing-field-for-black-women/

    its good to be a white guy.
  • boygabriel
    boygabriel
    Yup, taken in large groups, people tend to date within their own race.

    But on an interpersonal level, anything is possible. Especially in a city such as ours.
  • armchair_warrior
    armchair_warrior
    Boygabriel wrote: Yup, taken in large groups, people tend to date within their own race.

    But on an interpersonal level, anything is possible. Especially in a city such as ours.
    not asian women they love white men!!!! asian women born here out marriage rate is like 40% last time i check. anecdote evidence are asian guys are mostly single these days. cause women of other races don't like us either.

    also in this society asian men still are being showed as girlie, they can't even let asian men play other manly asian men, they have to hire white guys to play Chengis khan and others still.

    It would be like them hiring some asian dude to play john Wayne or some white guy to play Micheal Jordan. there would be a outrage!

    so screw you guys without knowing the background to the whole thing.
  • scarlett
    scarlett
    The Koreans I have dated have been pretty manly, but the Chinese and Japanese a little fem. Armchair, dude, get off the computer and go out and meet some people.
  • armchair_warrior
    armchair_warrior
    lol I gave up along time ago, no gonna go out and meet some "people".

    I been been on plan z for a while now.
  • boygabriel
    boygabriel
    armchair_warrior wrote: [quote=Boygabriel]Yup, taken in large groups, people tend to date within their own race.

    But on an interpersonal level, anything is possible. Especially in a city such as ours.
    not asian women they love white men!!!! asian women born here out marriage rate is like 40% last time i check. anecdote evidence are asian guys are mostly single these days. cause women of other races don't like us either.


    And I have Asian friends who have dated white girls and Asian girls and other races.

    So I guess our anecdotal evidence has gotten us nowhere.
  • armchair_warrior
    armchair_warrior
    Boygabriel wrote: [quote=armchair_warrior][quote=Boygabriel]Yup, taken in large groups, people tend to date within their own race.

    But on an interpersonal level, anything is possible. Especially in a city such as ours.
    not asian women they love white men!!!! asian women born here out marriage rate is like 40% last time i check. anecdote evidence are asian guys are mostly single these days. cause women of other races don't like us either.


    And I have Asian friends who have dated white girls and Asian girls and other races.

    So I guess our anecdotal evidence has gotten us nowhere.

    everyone has dated someone but lets look at raw numbers! I have dated a white girl, that doesn't mean jack. you always can find someone to upset the whole picture. like i said stats man stats! you could point out a women would want to date her dog rather than a man LOL.
  • armchair_warrior
    armchair_warrior
    Among all newlyweds in 2008, 9% of whites, 16% of blacks, 26% of Hispanics and 31% of Asians married someone whose race or ethnicity was different from their own.

    Gender patterns in intermarriage vary widely. Some 22% of all black male newlyweds in 2008 married outside their race, compared with just 9% of black female newlyweds. Among Asians, the gender pattern runs the other way. Some 40% of Asian female newlyweds married outside their race in 2008, compared with just 20% of Asian male newlyweds. Among whites and Hispanics, by contrast, there are no gender differences in intermarriage rates.


    http://pewsocialtrends.org/pubs/755/trends-attitudes-interracial-interethnic-marriage
  • armchair_warrior
    armchair_warrior
    i posted facts let you do the same.

    oh free Palestine and native Americans getting murder etc..... blah blah blah.
  • boygabriel
    boygabriel
    So it's a difference of 20% between Asian males and females?

    That's what has you so hopeless?
  • armchair_warrior
    armchair_warrior
    you are a wall and i'm tired.
  • lnelson
    lnelson
    armchair_warrior wrote:

    Last time I try this was over a decade ago, with my personalty and a picture. So i did a test of a picture with my friends permission(white dude) sent it to same girls, I gotten replies back.

    whoa hey whoa hey whoa, as they say, if by "they" one means carmen.

    that is totally not a reasonable way to assess whether you are being rejected because you are asian. cyrano de bergerac and christian were both white french dudes, but it took cyrano's words and christian's good looks to win over roxanne. did you do a empirical study your own and your white pal's comparative handsomeness? because if not, i say feh to your conclusion here.

    and PS, my first boyfriend was named minh-ly and the second was half chinese and half japanese, so there.
  • whynot_31
    whynot_31
    <<< predicts AW will soon PM lnelson, asking her out.
  • lnelson
    lnelson
    whynot_31 wrote: <<< predicts AW will soon PM lnelson, asking her out.
    preempting that: i don't date gamers.





    (anymore)
  • whynot_31
    whynot_31
    and there you have it:

    AW may be single because he is a gamer, not b/c he is Asian.

    I think we are done here.
  • canyontothesky
    canyontothesky
    A lot of couples I see who seem really in love or compatible and are married and have kids seriously look like they could be siblings. I have a theory that a good percentage of successful partnerships are like that. Is it just me? So for example, I feel like I'm destined to marry a blond haired guy who can't tan.
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